The Courage to Hold Tension – Leading Through Paradox 

By Sarah Jenkins, Menzies Leadership Foundation

The greatest act of leadership today is not to resolve every tension, but to hold it — with steadiness, humility, and imagination — until something better becomes possible. 

Leadership in 2025 is defined not by clarity of answers but by the courage to navigate competing truths. Across institutions, communities and organisations, leaders are facing tensions that cannot be neatly resolved: stability versus adaptation; individual freedom versus collective responsibility; short-term pressure versus long-term stewardship. 

We are living in a time where certainty is scarce and complexity is abundant. Traditional leadership instincts — to fix, to simplify, to decide quickly — are no longer sufficient. The leaders who will shape the future are those who can hold tension without retreating into polarisation or false simplicity. 

Paradox is no longer a philosophical concept. It is now a practical competency. 

The New Reality of Competing Demands 

Deloitte’s Global Human Capital Trends 2025 highlights that 86% of organisations now expect leaders to navigate paradox and systemic tension as a core capability. This shift reflects the realities of an interdependent world where decisions ripple across teams, sectors and societies. 

The World Economic Forum’s Future of Jobs Report 2025 reinforces this, naming complex problem-solving, systems thinking, and analytical judgment among the fastest-growing leadership skills. 

Meanwhile, the Edelman Trust Barometer continues to show widening fractures in public confidence, with societal polarisation becoming a defining risk. In such an environment, leaders must hold space for disagreement while nurturing possibility. 

Paradox is the new terrain. Leaders cannot escape it — they must learn to navigate it. 

Why Paradox Matters 

Complex challenges — climate transition, AI governance, social cohesion, demographic shifts — come with tensions that cannot be fully resolved. Paradox leadership recognises: 

  • Two conflicting realities can be true at the same time. 
  • Progress requires synthesis, not sides. 
  • Tension is a source of innovation, not a sign of failure. 

When leaders reject or ignore tension, systems become brittle. When leaders engage tension with openness, systems become adaptive. 

Leadership Across Levels 

At the individual level 

Paradox shows up in the personal decisions leaders make every day. A manager trying to balance empathy with accountability; a teacher navigating curriculum requirements with the emotional needs of students; a CEO balancing shareholder expectations with social responsibility. 

Holding tension requires: 

  • Emotional regulation 
  • Reflection 
  • Curiosity 
  • The willingness to slow down before speeding up 

It is not about indecision, but about disciplined openness

At the organisational level 

Organisations must move beyond binary thinking. Instead of choosing between efficiency OR innovation, they must cultivate structures that allow both. This includes: 

  • Encouraging dissenting perspectives 
  • Building cross-functional decision processes 
  • Rewarding experimentation, not just outcomes 
  • Designing dual operating systems — a stable core + an adaptive edge 

The organisations that thrive in 2025 are those that embrace complexity rather than suppress it. 

At the system and community level 

Governments, NGOs and civic institutions must navigate ideological divides, geographic disparities and generational expectations. Tension in this context is unavoidable. 

Leaders must build coalitions across difference, design participatory governance models, and hold space for competing viewpoints while still moving forward. 

Paradox in Action 

  • Climate policy 
    Governments must balance economic growth with environmental protection — a classic paradox. Countries that succeed create blended strategies: transitioning industries while protecting workers. 
  • AI regulation 
    Innovation must coexist with safety. Successful organisations embed flexible governance models that encourage responsible experimentation. 
  • Community cohesion 
    Local councils often mediate between residents seeking growth and those wanting conservation. Their effectiveness depends less on selecting a side and more on facilitating shared understanding. 

What Leaders Can Do 

Name the tension 

Acknowledging the paradox reduces anxiety and creates shared understanding. 

Reframe the question 

Shift from “Which side is right?” to “How might both be true?” 

Create reflective space 

Tension cannot be held at speed. Leaders need intentional pauses to absorb complexity. 

Prototype the path forward 

Small experiments reduce risk and reveal synthesis. 

Invite diverse perspectives 

Paradox requires multiple lenses to fully understand the terrain. 

Risks of Ignoring Paradox 

Leaders who avoid tension risk: 

  • Making decisions that please one group but alienate others 
  • Oversimplifying issues that require nuance 
  • Fueling polarisation 
  • Losing legitimacy 
  • Driving organisational or civic fragmentation 

The cost of simplistic leadership is now too high. 

The Courage to Stay With the Discomfort 

Paradox leadership demands courage — the courage to stay in the discomfort long enough for new possibilities to emerge. Instead of collapsing tension, leaders must work within it, recognising that durable solutions arise from synthesis, not certainty. 

This is leadership that invites, rather than imposes. Leadership that listens deeply. Leadership that chooses complexity over caricature. 

Series Overview 

This article is part of Leadership in 2025 – A Shared Responsibility, a thought-leadership series authored by Sarah Jenkins at the Menzies Leadership Foundation. Drawing on global research and local insights, the series explores how leadership is evolving across individuals, organisations, communities, and systems. From trust and grievance to AI governance, human sustainability, and the future of work, each piece unpacks the challenges and opportunities shaping leadership in an age of complexity.

At the Menzies Leadership Foundation, we believe the defining work of leadership today is not to erase tension, but to hold it — patiently, bravely, and with the discipline to stay open when certainty feels easier.

In an age shaped by competing truths, paradox is no longer an obstacle to overcome; it is the terrain leaders must learn to navigate. The leaders who will shape our shared future are those who can sit with discomfort, invite multiple perspectives, and create the conditions for new possibilities to emerge.

We support leaders who resist false choices, who honour both stability and adaptation, who balance empathy with accountability, and who steward long-term responsibility amid short-term pressure.
This is leadership that strengthens trust, deepens capability, and builds institutions that are resilient enough to hold complexity without fracturing.

If this is the kind of leadership you are committed to — leadership with the courage to hold tension — we invite you to connect with us.

Natasha Eskinja

Digital Communications Coordinator

Natasha is driven by a profound passion for both creativity and analytics, a synergy that fosters authentic storytelling in the digital realm with both innovation and integrity. 

Throughout her career, she has consistently integrated the overarching marketing and communications narrative with the emotional connections of audiences. She is currently pursuing a Certificate in Society and the Individual from Flinders University, furthering her exploration of human behaviour and the critical importance of connectedness between organisations, individuals, and communities.

LinkedIn | natasha.eskinja@menziesfoundation.org.au

Sarah Jenkins

Strategic Communications Manager

Sarah has more than 18 years’ experience in communications and marketing leadership across a range of sectors.

Communications strategy and organisational growth is a continuing theme in Sarah’s career. Most recently, she leads the development of a Leadership Movement, evaluated by Menzies Viral Co-efficient Model; a contribution to the NFP. 

Sarah’s early career centred around best practice in marketing and communications which later culminated into the establishment of her very own agency. This work extensively spanned across PR, traditional media, event management, strategy, digital marketing, graphic design and business development consultancy. 

In 2019, Sarah joined the lean and robust team at the Menzies Foundation. She has since crafted the Foundation’s narrative and communication strategy. The development of this strategic communications platform is essential for ‘movement building’ and requires a strong strategic, management and communication skills set. Sarah has brought so much to this important work, which sits at the forefront of communication practice. 

Sarah continues to contribute to the NFP sector through her commitment to Purpose; as she reflects on her own leadership, builds her own leadership capability and contributes to the greater good. 

LinkedIn | sarah.jenkins@menziesfoundation.org.au | 0401 880 071

Rohan Martyres

Director, Strategy and Partnerships

Rohan has 15 years’ experience in facilitating cross-sector collaborations to address complex social and health challenges.  He has worked with the World Economic Forum in Australia, led an international conflict resolution field team in Nepal, and directed a 10-year £40m initiative to reduce health inequity in London.

Most recently, Rohan was Major Grants Development Manager at the Ian Potter Foundation.  He refined the foundation’s major grants strategy, and co-developed a series of large scale initiatives, including joint philanthropic-government funding for a new national organization to support place-based approaches across Australia.

Rohan has held several non-executive roles, including with an international NGO and with London Funders, the peak body of independent foundations in London.  He holds several qualifications including a graduate degree in innovation and strategy from the Judge Business School, University of Cambridge.

When Rohan isn’t exploring Melbourne’s creeks with his partner and 6yo daughter, he’s working on his currently weak Australian accent (after 15 years in the UK).

LinkedIn | rohan.martyres@menziesfoundation.org.au | 0404 505 954

Trudy Morrison

Operations Manager

A marketing and communications specialist with over 20 years experience in government, corporate and consumer marketing, Trudy brings her adaptive and organisational project management skills to the Menzies Foundation team. 

With a BA degree in Public Relations, Trudy began her career with the City of Melbourne and in magazine publishing, before moving into marketing communications consulting. She has worked in strategic marketing leadership roles with retail brands and enjoys juggling many projects and tasks simultaneously. Her skills were further enhanced when managing her own communications business representing industries across private education, financial services, aviation, government and the health industry. 

Trudy is passionate about leadership and all people being encouraged to reach their full potential through research and educational initiatives and opportunities throughout Australia. A skilled and accomplished writer and editor Trudy is enthusiastic about bringing her variety of skills to the Menzies Foundation team. 

LinkedIn | trudy.morrison@menziesfoundation.org.au | 0402 361 878

Liz Gillies

Chief Executive Officer

Liz Gillies has had over 25 years experience in a range of fields focused on initiatives for social impact. She has held roles in multiple sectors and academia.

In 2018, Liz was appointed CEO of the Menzies Foundation which aspires to build a leadership movement that supports Australians to pivot to purpose, build their leadership capability and contribute to the ‘greater good’.

Liz joined the Melbourne Business School in 2009 and was instrumental in establishing the Asia Pacific Social Impact Centre (APSIC) and The Centre for Ethical Leadership. In November 2011 she was appointed as research fellow to lead a partnership focused on strategic philanthropy which culminated in the release of the reports: Philanthropy: Towards a Better Practice Model (2018) and the Philanthropy: The Continued Journey to Real Impact and better Practice (2021).

Liz has extensive governance experience, having served on the Board of the Publish Galleries Association of Victoria, Social Firms Australia, Uniting Care Community Options, United Way Australia and the Development Committee of the Towards a Just Society Foundation. She is currently on the Philanthropy Reference Group of Barmal Bijiril and a Director of Philanthropy Australia.

LinkedIn | liz.gillies@menziesfoundation.org.au | 0416 112 703

Natasha Eskinja

Digital Communications Coordinator

Natasha is driven by a profound passion for both creativity and analytics, a synergy that fosters authentic storytelling in the digital realm with both innovation and integrity. 

Throughout her career, she has consistently integrated the overarching marketing and communications narrative with the emotional connections of audiences. She is currently pursuing a Certificate in Society and the Individual from Flinders University, furthering her exploration of human behaviour and the critical importance of connectedness between organisations, individuals, and communities.